Tau aho fakapa

Koe tau aho fakapa mo e tau faahi tapu he gahua leveki tama to lahi e tau fakaakoaga holo fano (rollercoaster).

Ai ni ko e fakamahani a koe ha kua fai tama foou I loto he kaina, ka kua liu a koe ke fakaako moe hiki foki  e moui ke lata mo e levekiaga he tama, ti koe mena to fai magaaho to maeke ia koe  mo e tama haau ke holo  mitaki e tau fakaholoaga. Ko e tau aho fakapa  mo e tau faahi tapu, ko e mena uka lahi e leveki he tama fanau foou ti koe gahua 24 e tula he aho ti maeke foki ke ai moua mitaki a koe ha mohe.

 

Lakaaga fakamua haau  mo e matutakiaga moe tama haau

Onoono kia Koe Look at You. , Aroha Atu, Aroha Mai koe fakaholoaga fakapa he tau fakaholoaga DVD’s ne tause he Counties Manukau DHB mo e Auckland University of Technology ne fakaoga e tau ata ke fakakite e tau mahani he tau tama mo e maeke ia lautolu ke tutala mo tautolu kamata mai he fanau mai.  Ko e tau kifaga nei ke lagomatai e tau matua, fanau mo e tagata gahua lagomati ke maama e tau fakamailoa e tau tama mo e fakaako ke taute  ke he tau puhala ke make ke lagomatai e tupuaga he moui he tama.

Ko e tau DVD ke lagomatai a koe ke iloa ko e magaaho fe kua mitaki ke toto e tama ke maeke ia lautolu ke onoono kia koe – Ko e mata haau ne kua manako e tama haau ke onono ki ai he tau faahi tapu fakamua.

Tupu hake fakahaga e tama haau ti kamata ai ke kolole mo e tutala kia koe. Tutala ke he tama haau, kaeke ke iloa e koe ke vagahau taha vagahau foki, fakaoga ke vagahau ke tutala ke he tama haau. 

 

Tagi

Ko e mena okaoka, lolelole, hauhaua e falu a mogo he leveki he tama tagi tumau .

Ko e tau aho /faahi tapu fakamua ai mukamuka ke iloa ko e heigoa he tama ne tagi ki ai – ko e mena kehekehe e tau leo tagi he tama. Uneune hake e tagi he tama he tau faahi tapu fakamua hoko hake ke  matila ke he 3 ke he 6 e faahi tapu ti uneune hifo e tagi he tama. Ko e matila he tagi he tama mo e fakafi ke liga ua e tula he aho. Lahi ke he tau magaaho pale laa poke tau mogo afiafi – kaeke ke nakai la mau e tama ke mohe  ti  fefeua e kai, kai fakatoka ti liu kai foki. Lata mai mo e 20 % he tau tama ikiki fa kai fili mo e leva e tagi, muatu ke he tau mogo afiafi.

Tupetupe ke leveki  e tama fa tagi loa moe tagi tumau. Ko e kakano  kua nakai maama mitaki ti nakai fai fakakiteaga kua fai mena kelea e tau mamatua ne taute po  taute pauaki ni he tama e mahani ia.

Liga ko e tagi e tama haau he  hoge, kaeke kua oti he fagai e tama ka e tagi agaia fakakia e kaputi ke aaki, poke mamahi (mamahi e manava, seliga, tupu e tau nifo) po ke to lahi tei e fota po kua lolelole e tama haau.

 

 

Lagomatai ke moua

Ko e fakahiku aki, Ko e mena mahuiga lahi ke manatu  ko e falu a aho he tau tapu fakamua he leveki tama ko e mena uka lahi. Kaeke ke lahi e tau aho pe he nei, ti mitaki lahi ke tutala ke he taha tagata tuga e matakainaga he magafaoa po ke kapitiga mo e iloa e koe ko hai ke ole lagomatai a koe ki ai. Ua ma po ke matakutaku ke ole lagomatai ha ko e mena pihia oti ni a tautolu  lata ke moua e lagomatai.

Kiliki ke matutaki I kelekele ke he tau higoa he tau tagata ke maeke ke lagomatai. 

 

Content provided by Dr Denise Guy

Dr Denise Guy is a Child Psychiatrist who has worked in Infant Mental Health [IMH] in Australia and New Zealand for almost three decades and has recently become the President of the New Zealand Affiliate of the World Association of IMH [WAIMH].  Denise has been very fortunate to have worked with Counties Manukau DHB as Clinical Advisor to the “Look at You, Aroha Atu, Aroha Mai” DVD project for parents, whanau and professionals. It has been a privilege for her to work with the families and professionals involved in this project.

Based in Wellington, she is a Trustee of the Incredible Families Charitable Trust which focuses on the early years with the delivery of evidence based interventions and training.