Aho kamata

Ko aho muamua lava ko vaiaho muamua o te fai ma matua e lahi na mea e akoako ei koe.

E gata I te fakamahani o koe ma tau pepe I loto I tou kaiga I he taimi maumua, e mankomia foki ke tauloto te olaga fou ma ola ai faifai koe ma tau pepe. E lahi na mea e fakamasani ai koe mo tau pepe i tou fale e vena hoki te lahi o te huiga o na mea e fou kae feagai ma koe ma tau pepe. He vaitaimi  faigata lele tenei i naai aho muamua i loto i te 24 itula kae ke lava lelei tau moe.

Ko sitepu muamua lava ka kamata ei te mafutaga a koulua ma tau pepe

Kikila ki te Aroha atu, Aroha mai ko te DVD muamua lava na haunia e te Counties Manukau DHB ma te Auckland University of Technology na saunia e ki latou he filimu o fehaohoani ki na matua. Te filimu tenei e fehoahoani ki na matua, whanau ma na tagata atamai i na fakailoga e fakaalia mai e te pepe na auala e manakomia ni ietahi fehoahoani ki soifua maloloina o te pepe.

Ko tau pepe o gasolo o matua ko te taimi tonu ka mafai ai o kamata oi talanoa ma sokotaki ma koe. Talanoa lava ki tau pepe, kafai e mafai oi talanoa koe Ietahi gagana e manakomia ke fakaoga uma e koe o talanoa ki tau pepe.

Tagi

Te tulaga e fakananaaga ei tau pepe mai te tagi he fakafitauli lahi lele, e faigata kae fakafiufiu.

I nai aho maumua/vaiaho he tulaga faigata lele oi malamalama koe i te uiga o te tagi o te pepe. E lahi na uiga. Ka tagi te pepe i te vaiaho maumua e gata tona tagi maualuga i he 3 ki he 6 vaiaho kua fanaifo o tau feololo. I te taimi e tagi lahi lele e mafai lava oi maua he lua itula i te aho

Ko te lahi o na mea veia e tutupu lava i te tutonu ma te afiafi kafai e heki toka te pepe oi moe e fakafiufiu i tena kai. E 20% o na pepe e fakafiufiu oi tagi lahi lele I te afiafi.

He fakafitauli lahi lele ki te kikila o te pepe I te vaitaimi e lahi lele ai tona tagitagi.

He he iloa lelei pe hea te na mafua ai oi tagitagi so te pepe e mahua mai tena matua pe ko uiga lava o te pepe.

E mafai te pepe oi tagi pe ka fofou ke kai, kae ka fai e makona lva te pepe, siaki ietahi pogai, napi ko tatau oi hui, tiga tona tino( manava, taliga ona nifo) io pe ko gafuia atili tona tino.

Manakomia he fehoahoani

E tatau oi kikila lelei ki te tauhiga o te pepe ite vaiaso muamua e lahi te fakafitauli i tena taimi.Ka fetaui koe ma na taimi veia talanoa ki ietahi tino o te kaiga, taugasoa ke mafai oi kavatu na fehoahoani e mankomia. Ko tatou uma lele e fofou ki na fehoahoani i tenei lava taimi ki a koe ma tau pepe.

Kiliki i te link teia ke mau e koe na tino e kavatu e ki latou na fehoahoani.

 

Content provided by Dr Denise Guy

Dr Denise Guy is a Child Psychiatrist who has worked in Infant Mental Health [IMH] in Australia and New Zealand for almost three decades and has recently become the President of the New Zealand Affiliate of the World Association of IMH [WAIMH].  Denise has been very fortunate to have worked with Counties Manukau DHB as Clinical Advisor to the “Look at You, Aroha Atu, Aroha Mai” DVD project for parents, whanau and professionals. It has been a privilege for her to work with the families and professionals involved in this project.

Based in Wellington, she is a Trustee of the Incredible Families Charitable Trust which focuses on the early years with the delivery of evidence based interventions and training.